"METAMORPHOSIS OF LIFE."

The cops chasing the wicked scoundrels, the hunter chasing the deer, the farmer chasing the hens away; all these chases ultimately have a violent and tragic ending.  But, nothing on earth can beat the chase that seems endless and yet has an end, the rivalry that appears to be too brutal and sadistic but wraps up on a friendly note, the notorious race that brings no tears but only cheers us up.  Yes! am referring to the worst foes and the best buddies; the world famous 'Tom and Jerry show !'. I bet no one will disagree with me when I say that 'Tom and Jerry Show' is the ultimate stress buster. Over the years, I have inculcated this very bad habit of sitting with my lunch infront of the television set, switched onto Cartoon Network. Fortunately, the afternoon hours have always been devoted to my favourite show. All I would end up doing was spending over an hour, nibbling as lazily as a sloth and laughing as excitedly as if I was Jerry the Mouse. Surprisi...

We need 4 hugs a day for survival, 8 hugs a day for maintenance & 12 hugs a day for growth. - Virginia Satir, Family Therapist. When was the last time you exchanged a hug with someone? Do you remember the feeling of immense love and contentment you feel when you’re hugged? Does it make you feel special and wanted? There is a difference between ‘social hugging’; where you paste an artificial smile on your face and exchange some quick hugs and pecks on the cheek, and therapeutic hugging. Therapeutic hugging is meant to be healing. Reaching out and touching someone and holding them tight is simply a natural way of saying you care. When you’re embraced, you feel all your worries melt away and you want live the moment and take it all in. The warmth radiating from the embrace engulfing you is enough to reinforce the positive energy around you and lift you up. From the time a foetus is in its mother’s womb he is exposed to the healing powers of ‘touch’. Our skin being a ‘...

I wana fly up in the sky, Far away from worldly dusk. Where light gleams and star twinkles, Day and night. Where there is no place for sorrow, World is full of joy. Where river of peace flow, Sunlight spread forgiveness. Birds chirp love songs, Soothing air purifies your soul. Nothing seems to exists but sky stretches to eternity, No fear of past, No worries of future, men live life to lees. If life was a lemon drink, I would lick it till last drop. If Life was a sweet dream, I would never open my eyes. If Life was a journey, I would never stop walking. Life is to live for, I will live for every moment till I can. If life is a song, Sing it peacefully. If life is a game, Play till the end. If life is a gamble, Hold your cards. Whatever life is, give your best you can. Don’t ever run your will, Never think to kill you desire. ‘coz it is one life ahead, Which will never come back again. Obstacles may come your way, But face them with smiles. Nothing is there you...

This is one of those moment in my life that I feel like burying myself under the blanket for a little longer,this is one of the moment that i want to lock myself in the room where dark brown curtains can't stop staring at me and this is one of the moments that i don't need an alarm clock to wake me up simply because i just don't sleep and this is EXACTLY one of the moments that I play ignorant game with the beautiful sunshine outside my window pane,refusing to attend to their warm calling and instead letting the darkness to heal my soul. They are hurting me with their blunt words,yes the kind of words they don't think before they speak,the kind of words that would instantly bring me to pieces. Why they have to this thing to me when I have been all supportive to them all this while,how could they have the heart to say those things right in front of my face?How can they turn cold to me when all this while I have been their shoulder to cry?I am tired of the...

I’m missing the old me, the kind of person that I was a year ago. I guess SHE’s missing right now and I have no idea how to get her back to myself. I admired her truly because SHE had the courage to challenge the destiny, SHE decides what SHE wants in her life and SHE knew exactly how to fight for it. I miss that SHE who doesn’t give a damn about what others were thinking of her. I still remember her walking all through from hostel which is miles away to the class located on top of the hill because the campus bus wasn’t functioning.ohh..how enthusiastic SHE was!!! And I miss that SHE who will be sitting at the café for hours with just a glass of cold chocolate with a bunch of awesome friends and give marks for all the cool guys that passed around them!! And I miss that SHE who goes late to almost every class and walks out of the class with her ever famous cheeky smile without getting scold because her lecturer loves her :P:P SHE got her own style of dressing up, and S...

I found a really good article about how to own your own life. While other writers often wrote about the recipes of life, this one is different. The author said that there's no secret recipe for happiness. I agree that we must be able to choose our own path of life. It's not about right or wrong but choosing the best path that we will take. The article also explains about the ups and downs of life which are very normal. Every once in a while we will face the ups and downs of life. What does it mean? It means that we must be able to find the reason behind everything. My fave statement of the article is when the author mention about life difficulties: "You must learn to observe life’s complexities through the eyes of a child seeing everything for the first time". Making Life Yours - Perception - There is no secret recipe for happiness and contentment. The individuals who move through life joyously have not necessarily been blessed with lives of abundance,...

JO MILE HAYAT E KHIZR MUJHE AUR USSE MAIN SARF E SANA KARUN TERA SHUKR FIR BHI ADA NA HO TERA SHUKR KAISE ADA KARUN?  TERE LUTF KI KOI HAD NAHI GINU KAISE KE KOI ADAD NAHI NAHI KOI MERA TERE SIWA JISSE DUA KE LIYE MAIN YAAD KARUN MAN BAHUT AIJAZ O BENAWA TERE AAGE MERI BISAAT KYA? MAIN KAHA KARUN TU SUNA KARE MAIN LIYA KARUN TU ATA KARE TERE DAR PE KHAYAM RAHE SAJDA MERA TERI BESHUMAR REHMATON SE GUZAR MERA KOI BHOOL HO TOH MAAF KAR  BAKSH MUJHE AYE MUJEEB! NAHI MERA KOI KHUDA AYE MUTTAKABIR.. GAR HO SAZA TOH KAM KAR.... :( :) :)

Now this ain't any attempted poem, read it as a flowchart, without arrows. It flows top down and then iterates. Curious Child Gets a toy Is curious about it Toys with it Is Fascinated Is obsessed Toys a bit more Examines every dimension Is obsessed all the more Finally, has nothing more to explore Leaves the toy Discards it. Watches as other little child comes closer, curious.   Lets him have it Watches him have the same fun he had Then some more, he watches unperturbed But then... The new child has new tricks And the toy is doing them The new child is obsessed The old child wants the toy back The new child is unaware The old child cannot take it any longer The new child resists The old child snatches Toy breaks The new child cries The old boy feels loss, does not cry Back to square one .   P.S-i wrote somet...

"Love life. Be grateful for it always. And show your gratitude by not shying away from its challenges. Always try to live a little bit beyond your capacities - and you'll find your capacities are greater than you ever dreamed." - Anonymous I read this for self-motivation. Everyone of us, once in awhile, needs to motivate ourselves. Life nowadays is always full of challenges. Wherever we are, in big cities or small towns, we do feel the same rat race life that gives us so much stress. We have to be strong enough to cope with it or else it will destroy us. Sometimes, I really feel down. But I stop for awhile and ask myself, "What's worth for me to dwell in this mood? Sooner or later it will kill me!" I don't want it to have a control over me because it can turn out disastrous. I have to get rid of it and get moving. And getting rid of such mood is finding solutions to overcome it before it gets worse. I am feeling sad right now. Hence, come up wit...

People pull you down to your knees. They make you feel tarnished. Unclean. They do not give you even what you’d call a ray of Hope. They reprimand you. Scold you. Humiliate you, till you sink so low that it would be an impossibility to rise up again. They tell you that you can never be clean again. That you can never get back your sense of honor and Izzath again. They tell you that you are worth nothing. That you have nothing more to live for. That you are the worst of creations possible. Your heart becomes heavy with the pain of having faltered. You want to change, but you are submerged in humiliation and a loss of honor. You want to tell them that, people slip. That they fall down at times, because nobody is perfect. You wish to cry, to go back, to rip your heart out and say “Give me one more chance!” And what makes you think that people will give you that chance? They won’t. And you don’t need them to give it to you. The only One you need to prove yourself to, is to Your...

Vander Hoven, a psychologist from Netherlands, announced his new discovery about the effect of reading the Qur'aan and repeating the word ALLAH both on patients and on normal persons. The Dutch professor confirms his discovery with studies and research applied on many patients over a period of three years. Some of his patients were non-Muslims, others do not speak Arabic and were trained to pronounce the word " ALLAH " clearly; the result was great, particularly on those who suffer from dejection and tension. Al Watan, a Saudi daily reported that the psychologist was quoted to say that Muslims who can read Arabic and who read the Quran regularly could protect themselves from psychological diseases. The psychologist explained how each letter in the word "ALLAH" affects healing of psychological diseases. He pointed out in his research that pronouncing the first letter in the word "ALLA...

" God has endeared faith to you and adorned it in your hearts. " ~ [Qura'n 49:7] " Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love. " ~ Albert Einstein Albert Einstein not often cited for ideas outside the realm of science. But I recently came across an insightful statement formulated by him (the quotation above) that sparked a synapse some where in my mind about the relationship between religion and love. If the laws of gravity do not apply to love, that is, if human beings are not attracted by mere earthbound love, then I am left with two questions: First, if it's not love that brings two people together, than what does? Second, if love alone, or at least the popular conception of it, does not attract two individuals, than what does love pair-up with to bring human beings into each other's intimate spheres? So the questions can be distilled to a single inquiry: How do people fall in love? Contrary to popular belief and H...

I can hear the thunder I can see the rain pour The cracks of lightning brighten the sky Mother nature contributes to this cry. The twilight seems so pretty But empty Like an abyss sucking all light through it Turning into a dimwit. Turning away from the starting point Emotions breaking from their joints It all begins again When the weather starts to rain. Sitting and self-analyzing Self confidence justifying Trusting was an issue It just made more use of tissue. But trust is placed where its supposed to We made the mess we've gotten into Hatred wont happen till mistakes takes place It did happen... that's why everything falls out of place. And the reason wasn't unjustifiable Everything has its variables Everything happens for a reason And the reason is clear this season. Clear cut Like glass cutting through the beating heart It just seem so yesterday when summer clashes with winter But these days, better is the weather. Summer return to summer And autu...